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Alright folks, let’s talk about something super important, what should you wear to your engagement session? You’ve nailed down the perfect partner, picked a date, but have no idea what to wear. But don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. Here are six solid tips to help you look your best while staying true to yourselves!

Comfort is Key

First things first, comfort above all. Before you even think about style or how those shoes are stunning, make sure you can breathe, walk, and move naturally in whatever outfit you pick. You don’t want to be readjusting your clothes or feeling stiff in your photos! When you’re comfortable, it’ll show in photos.

 

Think Timeless

Fashion trends come and go, but photos last a lifetime. Focus on timeless, classic pieces rather than trendy items that may not age well. Simple and elegant choices will always stand the test of time, unlike current trends that might make you cringe in the future. Avoid incorporating overly trendy items into your engagement photos to ensure they remain timeless!

Location Matters

Where are you shooting? A beach session calls for different outfit compared to a downtown setting. If you’re photographing in a coastal setting during the summer, I always recommend linens or any breathable clothing pieces. If you’re getting them done in a downtown area or somewhere architectural, you can wear something more elegant!

 

 

Cordinating Over Matching

Your engagement session is about the two of you, not cloning yourself. Avoid dressing in identical outfits!! Pick a color palette and mix different patterns and fabrics within that range. This way, you look like you go together without completely matching outfits.

 

Accessorize

Accessories can add that extra fun touch to your outfit but don’t go overboard. A necklace, a cool watch, or a scarf (in the winter of course) can elevate your look without stealing the spotlight. Remember, the focus should stay on you two as a couple. It’s about subtle enhancements, not distractions.

 

 

Neutrals

Now, let’s get into why I usually recommend neutral colors for such occasions. Neutral tones have this amazing ability to keep the focus on yourather than what you’re wearing. Greys, whites, beige, and soft browns create a cohesive look that is both understated and sophisticated! While vivid colors and bold patterns can be appealing, they can also be distracting in photos. Neutrals are the perfect balance, offering a timeless appeal that won’t date your pictures. Plus, they blend seamlessly with various backgrounds, be it an urban setting, nature, or a cozy indoor location!

 

To wrap it up, remember that your engagement photos are a reflection of who you are as a couple. Follow these tips, but don’t lose sight of your personal style. After all, these photos are about capturing your unique connection and the love you share. So pick outfits that make you feel great, enjoy the session, and you won’t regret it. Happy planning!💍

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“My daughter McKenzie recently got married and Liz and her team worked diligently that entire day and night. But for me, as those memories fade away, over the years, I will forever be thankful as Liz captured every smile, every dance move and all the people that love this new couple. I have nothing to worry about, my memories will return by simply seeing all of Sterling Life’s talent done on February 17, 2024! Jill and I appreciate the gift you have given us!!”

-Gary

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First of all, huge congratulations on your engagement! This is such an exciting time for you both. Having documented countless weddings over the years, I’ve learned a thing or two about what makes the day flow smoothly and how you can get those perfect, candid shots that reflect the true essence of your love story.

Weddings are a whirlwind of emotions, details, and fleeting moments. It might seem overwhelming at times, but don’t worry – you’re in good hands. To help ease some of that pre-wedding jitters and ensure everything runs as smoothly as possible, I’ve put together some helpful tips and insights from a photographer’s viewpoint. These pointers are designed to help you prep for your wedding day, ensuring that you’re feeling relaxed, joyful, and truly present. Because, after all, the best photos happen when you’re genuinely enjoying every moment!!

1. Communicate Clearly with Your Photographer

First things first, communication is key! Your photographer should be your ally in planning the timeline, knowing your must-have shots, and understanding the style you envision. Schedule a pre-wedding consultation (or a couple of them!) to go over key details such as timeline breakdown, family shot lists, candid moments, etc.

2. Create a Detailed Timeline

A well-structured timeline is a lifesaver. Plan your day down to the minute, but also leave wiggle room for unexpected delays (hint: they will happen). Here’s a rough outline to consider:

Getting Ready (2-3 hours): Include detail shots like your dress, shoes, rings, and other accessories. Factor in travel time if you’re getting ready at a different location from the venue.

First Look (30-45 mins): If you’re doing a first look before the ceremony, allocate enough time for your reaction and some intimate portraits.

Ceremony (30 mins – 1 hour): Varies based on the type of ceremony.

Family Formals (30-45 mins): Have a helper organize relatives so this goes smoothly.

Wedding Party Photos (30 mins): Fun and candid shots with your closest friends.

Couple’s Portraits (1 hour): These portraits are some of the most cherished, so make sure you have plenty of time to relax and enjoy this part without feeling rushed

Cocktail Hour (1 hour): If timed well, you might be able to join part of this.

Reception (3-5 hours): Include key moments like the first dance, speeches, cake cutting, and general dancing!

3. Weather-Proof Your Plans

Living in a world where Mother Nature follows our every request would be marvelous, but reality often doesn’t comply. Always have a backup plan for any potential weather comes.

04. Prioritizing comfort on your wedding day

This is essential to ensure you enjoy every moment without unnecessary distractions. Start by wearing shoes that are already broken in to prevent any discomfort from new, stiff footwear. Staying hydrated is crucial, so keep water and perhaps a few snacks close by to maintain your energy levels. Lastly, consider your attire—if your wedding dress or tuxedo feels too tight or restrictive, it might be wise to have a secondary outfit ready for the reception that allows for easier movement and comfort.

5. Delegation is Your Best Friend

You can’t do everything yourself—and you shouldn’t have to! Assign tasks to trusted friends, family, or a wedding coordinator.

6. Prepping for Candid Moments

While posed photos are beautiful, candid moments often tell the real story. Encourage your guests to be themselves and soak in the day. You can do this by having an unplugged ceremony, fun activities, or a dance floor.

7. Golden Hour Magic

The hour before sunset, known as the “Golden Hour,” is the perfect time for some breathtaking and ethereal photos. Talk to your photographer about planning a small window during this time for couple’s portraits. The warm, soft light creates dreamy, romantic images that you’ll treasure forever.

8. Be Present and Enjoy Every Moment

This might be the most crucial piece of advice. Wedding days can be a whirlwind, but take moments throughout the day to breathe, soak in the atmosphere, and really be present. Your joy and love are what make the photos truly memorable.

I hope you enjoyed reading about How to prep for your wedding day. If you’re looking for someone to capture your special moments, click here to contact me!

 

Kind Words

“My daughter McKenzie recently got married and Liz and her team worked diligently that entire day and night. But for me, as those memories fade away, over the years, I will forever be thankful as Liz captured every smile, every dance move and all the people that love this new couple. I have nothing to worry about, my memories will return by simply seeing all of Sterling Life’s talent done on February 17, 2024! Jill and I appreciate the gift you have given us!!”

-Gary

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Sammie and Tyler’s wedding was truly a day to remember, filled with heartwarming moments and vibrant celebrations. The ceremony took place at the First Presbyterian Church in Virginia Beach! The anticipation of the day was visible as Sammie had chosen to do first looks. She had them with her family, bridesmaids, and Tyler. It was such a sweet series of moments to capture—tears of joy from her parents, excited cheers from her bridesmaids, and an overwhelming blend of happiness and awe from Tyler.

Princess Anne Country Club located in Virginia Beach, is an amazing venue for weddings. The club’s dedicated event planning team ensures every detail is flawlessly executed. From catering to personalized decor, creating a unique and unforgettable experience for the couple and their guests. It was the perfect location for Sammie and Tyler’s wedding day! Moving from the area of the church to the elegant setting of Princess Anne Country Club for the reception, the energy ramped up exponentially!! The reception was incredible to say the least. They had a live band that lit up the night with their sound enriched by saxophones and singing.

As if the reception wasn’t enough of a party, Sammie and Tyler also planned an after-party that took the celebrations to another level!! It was the perfect setting for guests to unwind and let loose after the formalities of the day. Capturing these candid, often hilarious moments added another layer to the story of Sammie and Tyler’s unforgettable day!

As a wedding photographer, it’s days like this that remind me why I chose this profession—to capture the essence of connections and the beauty of life’s most cherished moments. Congratulations, Sammie and Tyler, on a wedding that was as amazing as you both are!!

If you’d like to see a glimpse into their day, scroll for more!


I hope you enjoyed reading about Sammie and Tyler’s Virginia beach wedding day. If you’re looking for someone to capture your special moments, click here to contact me!

Kind Words

“LIZ HAS THE MOST BEAUTIFULLY ARTISTIC EYE. THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING MY VISION, EXCEEDING MY EXPECTATIONS, MAKING ME LAUGH AND HAVING FUN WITH ME. THANK YOU FOR MAKING MY DAY TRULY PERFECT.”

-Catie

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It’s been forever since I’ve blogged… and some say that blogging is dead but I actually love seeing all the images from the day laid out in a good old-fashioned blog post. I’ve had such a busy fall that I’m finally getting a chance to go back through the year and relive all the amazing weddings I got to be a part of this year. This one was no exception!

An Intimate Lynchburg Wedding – From Greenhouse to Downtown

 

Rozalyn and Jason rocked their beautiful greenhouse wedding in Lynchburg, Virginia. I’ve missed living in Lynchburg at times because it truly is such a beautiful place and a wonderful place to raise a family. I enjoyed my many years there before returning to Virginia Beach. I was so happy when Rozalyn reached out about her wedding at The Vaughan House. It is a beautiful greenhouse out in Forest, Virginia owned by Megan and Mitch Vaughan. Getting ready at The Virginian Hotel is also my favorite!

It couldn’t have been more perfect for them, and I’m so happy to share some of my favorite images with you! Hoping I can keep up with the blogging because I have so many fabulous weddings to share!

For more information on availability for 2023 and beyond – shoot me a message here! 

 

 

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